[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/materska-dovolenka-nie-je-dovolenka\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/materska-dovolenka-nie-je-dovolenka\/","headline":"Matersk\u00e1 dovolenka nie je dovolenka","name":"Matersk\u00e1 dovolenka nie je dovolenka","description":"Na\u0161e okolie a celkovo spolo\u010dnos\u0165 berie status \u201ematersk\u00e1 dovolenka\u201c naozaj ako trojro\u010dn\u00e9 pr\u00e1zdniny. Ver\u00ed tomu ka\u017ed\u00fd, kto si t\u00fdm s\u00e1m nepre\u0161iel alebo aspo\u0148 nemal vo svojej bl\u00edzkosti priate\u013eov s die\u0165a\u0165om. Ve\u013eakr\u00e1t som po\u010dula, \u017ee si odd\u00fdchnem, \u017ee budem doma. Ale v\u00f4bec to tak nie je a asi ani v najbli\u017e\u0161om \u010dase nebude.Rola matky je do\u017eivotn\u00e1 ...","datePublished":"2019-03-08","dateModified":"2019-03-08","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f5ad5dcd5c02ecc0fdaf1fe4b2e9a39ad5c5cc2b614885090f6f77b1ccabb3a9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f5ad5dcd5c02ecc0fdaf1fe4b2e9a39ad5c5cc2b614885090f6f77b1ccabb3a9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"mirid.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a298177_w2015_t1553268095.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a298177_w2015_t1553268095.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/materska-dovolenka-nie-je-dovolenka\/","wordCount":462,"articleBody":"Na\u0161e okolie a celkovo spolo\u010dnos\u0165 berie status \u201ematersk\u00e1 dovolenka\u201c naozaj ako trojro\u010dn\u00e9 pr\u00e1zdniny. Ver\u00ed tomu ka\u017ed\u00fd, kto si t\u00fdm s\u00e1m nepre\u0161iel alebo aspo\u0148 nemal vo svojej bl\u00edzkosti priate\u013eov s die\u0165a\u0165om. Ve\u013eakr\u00e1t som po\u010dula, \u017ee si odd\u00fdchnem, \u017ee budem doma. Ale v\u00f4bec to tak nie je a asi ani v najbli\u017e\u0161om \u010dase nebude.Rola matky je do\u017eivotn\u00e1 \u00faloha, ktor\u00e1 nesie so sebou hlavne zodpovednos\u0165za to mal\u00e9 stvorenie, ktor\u00e9 dr\u017e\u00edte, alebo budete dr\u017ea\u0165 v ruk\u00e1ch. Ke\u010f som bola v \u0161iestom mesiaci, pln\u00e1 o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed a nad\u0161enia sama ved\u00faca v pr\u00e1ci ma posielala na mar\u00f3dku, vraj m\u00e1m oddychova\u0165 k\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017eem. Samozrejme som to nebrala v\u00e1\u017ene a do posledn\u00e9ho mesiaca som naplno fungovala, s\u00edce nie v pr\u00e1ci, ale doma. Namiesto toho aby som si \u013eahla do postele a pospala si som \u010d\u00edtala knihy o rodi\u010dovstve a p\u00f4rode, alebo chystala v\u00fdbavi\u010dku pre die\u0165a. Prvorodi\u010dky to poznaj\u00fa, ale pri druhom die\u0165ati to bude in\u00e9. Nadi\u0161iel n\u00e1\u0161 \u201ede\u0148 D\u201c a spolu s mu\u017eom sme si priniesli domov mal\u00e9 diev\u010datko. Pocit \u0161\u0165astia a radosti nedok\u00e1\u017eem op\u00edsa\u0165, no po nieko\u013ek\u00fdch d\u0148och sme vpadli do reality. Partner musel \u00eds\u0165 do pr\u00e1ce a ja som ostala sama na to p\u00e1r d\u0148ov\u00e9 b\u00e1bo, ktor\u00e9 bolo z\u00e1visl\u00e9 vlastne len odo m\u0148a, od svoj mami. Potrebovalo jes\u0165, nevedelo \u010do je to noc a hlavne si vy\u017eadovalo bl\u00edzkos\u0165. 24-hodinov\u00fa starostlivos\u0165. To, \u017ee nesp\u00ed\u0161 a nek\u00fape\u0161 sa nieko\u013eko dn\u00ed v \u0161estonedel\u00ed je \u00faplne norm\u00e1lne, nakoniec si zvyknete, hoci to vonkoncom nebude \u013eahk\u00e9. Ke\u010f die\u0165a pomaly rastie a m\u00e1te vytvoren\u00fd vlastn\u00fd harmonogram, kone\u010dne si m\u00f4\u017eete dovoli\u0165 urobi\u0165 aj nie\u010do pre seba. N\u00e1js\u0165 si \u010das na kadern\u00ed\u010dku, alebo \u00eds\u0165 s kamo\u0161kou na k\u00e1vu je ako vyk\u00fapenie. Kone\u010dne si m\u00f4\u017eete si vychutna\u0165 bez die\u0165a\u0165a. Ale realita je tak\u00e1, \u017ee to nebude za tri mesiace, no mo\u017eno a\u017e za rok. Materstvo je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 vec, hlavne ak m\u00e1te prv\u00e9 die\u0165a. M\u00f4j gynekol\u00f3g mi raz povedal: \u201eDie\u0165a vie ako sa m\u00e1 narodi\u0165 a \u017eena vie ako ho m\u00e1 porodi\u0165!\u201c T\u00e1to rada mi pomohla v ka\u017edom smere, rovnako aj v doj\u010den\u00ed, \u010di celkovo vo v\u00fdchove. Spolieham sa na moju intu\u00edciu a v\u0161etko ide nejako samo. Dokonca u\u017e ani knihy nepotrebujem. S\u00edce je to ve\u013emi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9, no jednozna\u010dne v\u00e1m poviem, \u017ee to bolo moje najlep\u0161ie rozhodnutie \u2013 \u00eds\u0165 na matersk\u00fa dovolenku.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Matersk\u00e1 dovolenka nie je dovolenka","item":"https:\/\/www.mirid.sk\/materska-dovolenka-nie-je-dovolenka\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]